First Wedding Anniversary

My grandfather died this past October, and tomorrow would be my grandparents anniversary wedding 57th. Should it be known, recognized, or what? Should we take a day for celebrating my grandmother and try to distract her first birthday after his death, or should we be celebrating the anniversary? If someone who has dealt with this kind of thing could please share what they have done and how it happened in, it would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much!

As many of you who may be with Grandma. You will not be able to take his mind of it, but you can be there in the hope of laughter how they met, things they no longer have their lives together. It will just need to talk. Ya'll will be. May God bless you all

You should verbally acknowledge that I am sure she will appreciate that anyone remembers, but do not celebrate it.

I say he speaks with her. Im sure she just does not usually forget the day.

We did nothing, did not even put my grandmother she would not feel bad. She knew in her heart was his only anniversary.Some with it originally far we do not want it to be along the first year without her husband. (Grandfather)

When my grandfather died. My uncle was my gran roses on their birthday. As he would have done otherwise. She was deeply touched